Also, keep in mind that these behaviors contributed to your first failed attempt at true reconciliation, which led to another A. It would be far easier for now to sweep things under the rug and move on in your M like nothing ever happened. But you and I both know you'd just be robbing Peter to pay Paul.

One day, Peter has to be paid.

When you ask what if your W just attempts to move back into the M like nothing ever happened, what do you mean? Like, what would that look like to you? Sleeping in the same room?


M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014