Hi skhdive. I think people say 5-7 years with MLC. My H also shows signs of MLC, starting from a couple of years ago. He shows no signs of coming out right now. Have you read the stuff on hearts blessings website? I found that helpful. I also read Jim Conway's book, which was quite helpful. Both have helped me feel more empathetic if H is going through this. I'm reluctant to diagnose/label, but I think it's good to cover all the bases - just in case! grin

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus