I think if she really wants to reconcile, she will dig deep and do things that you may not have thought she would do. I never thought my H would cheat, but he has....people can surprise you.
Sounds as though things are going pretty well. But I agree with Train - don't console or reassure, merely validate. Have you read Wonka's validation sheet??
Keep up the good work! :-)
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
