WAS asked for divorce today.

[pilot]

I understand those feelings of wanting her to know she is loved and you will do anything for her. But you really need to understand she is not at a place in her life where she wants love from you. You did the right thing by not participating in the divorce and making her serve you. Sure it upset her, and you are most likely going to do things in the future which upset her again in this process. Dont let her mood dictate your actions. Let your beliefs. You do not agree with the divorce so do not work towards advancing it. Time is your friend.