Wow, that was awkward. We have just been to the meeting with the therapist of D14. She also asked about the marriage situation. At this point W discovered, that I am not going to move out asap. Her face went through different expressions: sadness, disappointment, anger and resignation. We have not spoken about it afterwards. But I guess she is shocked. Have you got any idea, how I could deal with this situation? I have clarity over the fact, that I do not want the D at this moment. And I know, that I do not want to help her with the D. But it felt sad, that she has obviously totally different ideas about the future. But I want to remain cool in this situation. So how should I communicate with her? No R talk? What about small talk? When we speak it is usually a bit awkward, because of the elephant in the room. What would you prefer? Silence or small talk? It is hard to sit beside her in the car, without talking to much.
I really need some thoughts from you about this.
Last edited by koalada; 04/21/1505:12 PM.
Me 46 W 45 S16 D14 S10 M 20 yrs in June T22 12/14 sleeping in different rooms 01/07/15 she said she wants a separation 02/26/15 I moved out
