It's true Onguard - and I'm excited reading your thread. I have already 'bookmarked' it in my mind in case we ever get to that point. You seem to manage a great deal of restraint in the face of your W's enthusiasm to reconcile. I'm watching and learning...

Good luck to you both going forwards...:-)

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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus