Ok, help please.

H stopped by my house this morning to drop off the dog and son's items since he had him last night, and he TM asking if he could take the giant First Aid kit in the garage. I answered that I wish our home hasn't become the local pick and pull but if you need it, take it.

This needs to stop. He moved 3 months ago. Each time he goes over, he takes something, and it's another slap in the face. It's his stuff, but it just gets me shaken up each time. What can I say to him to basically say, get whatever else you need, at one time, and be done with it? Or do I say nothing and deal with each time? Or, maybe, time to change the locks?


Me 48 H 46 S 11
M 2004
BD 8/13
H moved out 2/15
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