Newcomer dealing with WAH in Midlife Crisis, EA/probly PA

[TP459]

I like the "not a team player". You're right, I'm learning from his aggravation that telling him when they miss him just annoys him & he takes it out on me even tho he's the cause.

My H always promised he would never cheat on me, not that I asked or accused... he would just say that if we heard of someone else cheating. His parents have such a wonderful relationship that I believed 1. He had a great foundation & example & 2. That our relationship was just like theirs & 3. That our love & marriage were too strong. I know everyone thinks they'd never be hear & it's so cliche "I never thought this would happen to me"

Just going to continue to work on myself, detach & act as if. I act "as if" he'll be home any day & our lives are business as usual...just that he doesn't live her at the moment.