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I have learned so much from being a part of this community. Until recently I have not felt like I had earned the right to offer guidance to others. I know how painful it is to be betrayed and abandoned by someone who you thought loved you. That pain makes you think and act in ways that only make your situation worse. The vets like Starsky and Train (as well as others) really know thier stuff. Trust them even when it doesnt feel right. Their advice cannot guarantee that your M will survive but it will maximize the probability of success as well as give you your dignity back. Thank you again for making a difference to me and many others.


Me: 45 W: 44
M: 20 T: 31
S 20, D 13

W affair ended 5-13-14
W confessed 5-27-14
W wants to R 4-1-15; I'm not sure
Living in same house, separate beds