I am becoming Mr Bond's parrot. But I agree with him.
Also remember you are not a doormat. She was feeding you breadcrumbs yesterday, which means she is manipulating you to meet her agenda. It will do you no good to go into detail about your perspective. Keep it short as Mr Bond said. Remember that strength and confidence are your tools, neediness, reasoning and explaining will be your enemy. You broke down her A, she is in a weird place. Be Careful. I think it is really important for you to validate her position, and then acknowledge your faults (at a very high level), and to be detached even if you have to fake it
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015