I could use a little help. Part of what my coach told me to do is to compliment H everyday or every other day. I am finding this difficult to do because what comes to mind is usually something related to finding him attractive. I don't know if I should go that route or not. I can find lots of ways to show appreciation to him but that is different than complimenting him.

Any suggestions on how to give compliments without pursuing? Or should I not worry about if it would be seen as pursuing? I think if I say something about him still being sexy or attractive or looking good that is pursuit....so confused!

Me-44 (45)
H- 50 (51)
M-'96

S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)

BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas)
home Oct(sep rooms)
(EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed)
insists wants D through July 2015
no more talk of D since