Kid Question? When my kids get upset. I tell him either by sending a text or calling him so they can talk to him. He created this situation & I'm the one holding everyone together. I think he should know when they are hurting. For example a few nights ago our youngest D8 was uncontrollably crying (she hasn't cried much at all since the separation, usually its D10 who's crying), D8 wanted to talk to her Dad but he wasn't answering (very common since he keeps the ringer off, even tho he's constantly on his cell). Since he often doesn't answer & she was so desperate to talk to him I called his parents to let him know I was trying to reach him. He got upset with me & said if the kids are upset & I can't reach him then that's where it stops & I shouldn't pursue trying to reach him any further that I should just handle the situation (again alien talking my darling H of many years would never say that).
So should I tell him every time kids ask or cry for their Dad?
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