No you're right its not on. I've been on the, erm, smelly end of that kind of stick with other things from time to time. Make sure you're not getting taken for a ride. Its sometimes a fine line between being helpful, considerate and a fine friend and being a doormat - I speak as a fine piece of former axeminster
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015