Would the attention he shows me be considered baby steps (him standing so close to me that we are pushed up against each other, him looking at my mouth like he wants to kiss me, him asking to spend time with him & the kids)
How do I know when he's ready to work on us (yes I have a very positive attitude & I truly believe we will survive this & come out stronger...I believe in putting out positive vibes & beliefs)? Do I just have to wait until he initiates MC or dating? I'm guessing trying to kiss him is not the right thing to do either?
NO If the OW is still in the picture it is cake eating!
You don't want to pursue him and you can't love him out of his MLC.
