Rubi. Thanks for the thread. Wonka recommended it and it definitely applied to my sitch. Wife had an emotional affair three years ago, we reconciled but never did the work or moved past it. Renewed our vows in May and in dec she's not in love with me anymore. Has been hiding her phone for texts and going out late and not coming back til 2 or 4am, etc. have 2 young sons and have been worried about confronting her. Reading your thread gave me the courage to do so. I asked her last night and she denied it multiple times. Really not sure if she's lying or not but the one thing I am sure is I'm not afraid anymore and if she is having an affair,I'm ready to set boundaries and get my balls back!
M-33 W-33 S-11, S-8 M-11, T-14 BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18 I moved out 5/23