On the brink, need a miracle

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Hi OG,

From your post it sounds like you got things just right. Congratulations on the turn around. Like you say, take it slow, be sure of what you want. It seems instant full recommittment is a dangerous short term fix. Have your wife meet your core conditions and be sure to praise her for the effort she puts in when meeting them. Now the hard work begins. Good luck!