Thanks Bob, I really appreciate your support. And you too Cadet.

I need to post more here, I know you all are very supportive of each other. It's just hard to gain momentum as a newbie. But I'll try.

Cadet, I guess my feeling is that, if don't verbalize NC, then it won't have as much...impact? Like he'll think I'm just there hoping he'll text, etc. I guess I feel like this because, although I've had some success with the 180s, he still knows, for sure, that I don't want a D. So saying it outloud shows I'm absolutely moving on (??)