For example my making her serve me rather than going down to the lawyer's office really may have set me back in this situation. It makes me feel better because I feel I am making a stand and saying I do not want this D! But my goal shouldn't be just feeling better. I want her to see and know that she is loved. That she married a guy who would do anything for another chance to make babies with her, seriously talking about the babies here not merely the act of making them. Not sure whether I moved closer to, or farther away, from that goal today. frown

Last edited by aNewGuy; 04/21/15 04:32 AM.
Me 39 waw(ww) 26
M 5 years
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No children, miscarriage 3/14
EA 11/2015, confirmed 4/2015, pa?
Separated 2/2015
She files D 4/15/15
I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me