WAS asked for divorce today.

[aNewGuy]

Thanks Z and P. I have a lot of work to do on me right now.

Her father had complications in surgery today. Anyone who reads this and prays for others, pray for my father in law.

She got right down to business and had me served with D papers at work today.

I guess now I finally take her seriously that she is the one who is doing this. I plan to keep my distance very much from her - I have enough issues to work on myself.

In reading other peoples situations on here I see many little pieces of myself and my sitch scattered throughout everyone else's. I think I am in the right place here. A lot of learning the real reasons why I act certain ways - I am overall a very good man but reading here and learning bit by bit how some of my actions may be interpreted (based on bits and pieces of other people's sitch's) is causing some concerns for me. I have a long way to go.