Hello Lizzy,

I read your entire novel and your husband sounds amazingly like my wife, except she didn't control of the finances she wanted me to handle that. She has MS, is very depressed and has low self-esteem. My self-esteem is pretty low to but I'm working on it. My wife walked out on me six months ago yesterday and the very next day filed for divorce with no warning.

People on this board like Cadet, Starsky, Toots and MrBond, just to name a few, offer great advice.

Please hang in there and don't give up -- it doesn't seem like it now but you will get through this!

I'll say a prayer for you tonight that's my promise.

Bob


Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS)
M:14 yrs
T:15 yrs
No children together--3 each from previous marriages
Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14
Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14
Divorce Final: 10/21/15