Journaling:
W called tonight to let D4 FaceTime with me. After talking with D4 for a few minutes, W calmly asked me what I wanted in all of this. W says she doesn't want it to fester. W realized that she hadn't let me talk or hear my perspective yet. W wants to schedule a time to talk because she knows that I won't call her.

I told W that I was in the middle of something and wasn't ready to talk right now but we could talk about it tomorrow night. W said she understood and that was fine.

So, what do you think the best way is to handle this conversation tomorrow? I'm sure she just wants to know where I stand with her intention to D. Should I tell W that I don't want a D but I won't stand in her way?

Me:35 W:30
D:4 S:1
Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA
In House Separation: 01/14/15
W moves out: 04/05/15
I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15
W serves D papers: 06/19/15
Mediation: 09/16/15
D final: 12/01/15