Hey Closer, I feel like I've been there, first the regret that she got caught, then the regret that she let herself down, but nothing further.
I would definitely tread lightly with this - much caution. Sometimes it just seems self-serving for them.
Hey Closer,
Reading your posts today, I can see why you feel so confused. As u-turn put it tread lightly. Somehow you have to try to find a balance between that and keeping that road home paved smoothly.
I like the fact that you were not reacting, taking time to think things through!
Good for you.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15