Your H "tries" to be a good dad?

I just love the word try, it excuses failure in advance.

AHW with all respect, you are the stable parent for your two sons. I love the oxygen mask analogy. Ground yourself.

Joe and Wonka are saying the same thing, this OW and any others waiting in the wings are irrelevant to you when your H is this addicted.

By covering for him, you are enabling his behaviour (when you read codependent no more then this will be clear to you).

My dearest one, you are clearly ready to mend your life and heal for your children. You have chosen to listen and act.

V

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW