Hi Lisa, you made me laugh with the "eyeballs bleed" . It really was hard to get past. All the texting with horrible spelling. I agree that brief is better with men. We first started chatting in January and met Feb 6 so I guess I had a lot to say. Lol Our first coffee date lasted three hours and our second date was two days later. He wanted me off the dating site and was telling me he couldn't believe I was single, he wanted to spent more time with me, he was really interested in me and thought I was amazingly beautiful....blah blah. This is the behaviour of someone comittment phobic. They try and sweep you off your feet and get you to connect with them and then once you do they disappear. No wonder I initially had my guard up. The reason I am glad this happened again with him is that I had blamed myself. I thought I had been too guarded at first. Especially since he told me I had been. He came back for round two fully interested again. Flirting with me like crazy. Asking me if I would try again and let my guard down. He behaved exactly the same way, only this time I was wiser. The good thing is it did help me cross that bridge from feeling married still to embracing being single. I will be following you too.

Mozza......you have definetly tweeked my interest....lol

On wards to bigger and better. It's a beautiful day today...I am happy to be alive.


Me 52 H 44
T9 M 5
BD 12/11 H
split 8/12
OW moved in 12/12
OW gone for good 6/14
We get closer again 9/14
SD 13 Me 4 Grown





Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.