It is so hard to know...I feel I am super-sensitive in this area and wanted to put this situation out there to gauge whether I am overreacting or not.
I actually said to H "you live in a different world than me". Its almost that "last straw" feeling. Not like I am ready to leave but tired of making allowances for his behavior.
Most of the time things are good. But I know the boys feel he is still "checked out" when it comes to them. H does seem to think about only himself all the time. He has come out of a lot of MLC behaviors but somehow hasn't grown up past, say a 25-year old stage. And I would like to be married to a grown man.
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway