That's good. Now tuck that information away in the back of your mind. Your needs and desires will need to be put on the back burner for the time being.
Meanwhile, continue working on those issues. Perhaps you might want to look into IC and work with a DB Coach.
People talk about doing 180s here a lot. I always tell newbies to do those 180s that they can live with because they're going to live with them for the rest of their lives. With or WITHOUT their spouse.
Do them for YOU. Not just to "show 'em!", but for your own personal growth. Lord knows! I've had to address and grapple with my own patterns.
I've become a touch less headstrong now than I have been the past. More open to listening to different points of view.
This work is yours alone and your path to walk on alone. We cannot do the work for you.
