So after seeing that history and my story she's triggered by me and her past before me. She runs. I pursue she runs more. I get anxious and need sex because that means everything's ok and apparently she felt used by it. Lots of work on that pattern and I have healthier outlets to that now. But needs work on her part and continued on mine before we can be healthy. Hence the not pursuing and getting a life. What else specifically for me wonks or others?
M-33 W-33 S-11, S-8 M-11, T-14 BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18 I moved out 5/23
