Im sorry that I came across as patronizing and condescending. It was not my intention. In fact, it took me a long time to press the Publish button because I didn't know exactly how to say it. I failed.
I'm sure it's an honest question. It's just saddens me that you wonder about this. I'm not sure what would be a good answer. Even if you had a team of top psychologists studying him for a month and come up with his psychological profile, what would be the benefit at this stage?
Apologizing is hard for everyone otherwise you don't mean it. D3 started to cry recently when I ask her to apologize and I see it as a good sign. Then again, your H behaviour isn't all that good, that's right. Who cares?
What I mean is that you're still looking so much in the past. I don't say so to put you down, but as someone who wants you to be happy. Looking ahead is your ticket out of this pain, whether you want to R or not.
Think about Claire, her daughter and their future. Get excited about it.
M39 D6 D3 (at S) S 2014-09 D 2016-09
"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.
