Wonka, I don't want to keep anything from my "lady friend". So to make her feel comfortable, what is the best way to discuss meeting up with the W. It certainly isn't/wouldn't be a great emotional moment for her.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.