Ripken - Trying LRT and going dark. Now what?

[Ripken8]

I read Sandis posts on wayward wife. I'm not positive my wife is having an affair. Yes she left Sunday night at 9 and came back at 2am after getting texts. But when I asked her a couple months ago she said she was just friends and if there was anyone she wanted to date she would tell me before doing anything. Also when I talked with her about hiding money she could have brought up it was over she was seeing someone or wants to move out and she never did. Not sure if the wayward wife tactics work if she's not having and affair. Does that make sense? Any other suggestions? Looking into meetups or things to do this week. Booked skydiving on saturday