He lives in another state, was here on business when I met him. Fortunately he has to keep coming back for the project he is working on.
Just one word of caution though - put your Sherlock Holmes hat on and make SURE this guy isn't married or in a relationship already. With the internet these days that should be pretty easy to do. Does he use Facebook? Are you FB friends? Does it seem like a real FB page that gets used, or a dummy setup? I think you could even search public filings online to verify whatever he has told you about past marriages etc. I know it sounds paranoid but the business traveler is a setup for this kind of deception, so just do your homework.
