New Here Need advice to get started

[Joe46]

I am no Vet, but if I was in your shoes, I would not have answered the phone. I would have let him wonder what you are up to. I think he knows you will pick up the phone and listen to him. Let him wonder. It could also be a boundary issue.

" I will not discuss things with you while you are with OW"

I'm sure one of the vets here can give you more advice and will correct me if I am wrong.