WAS asked for divorce today.

[aNewGuy]

So she told me her father was having surgery this morning and asked me to pray for him.

And then in the next message she asked me if I had decided whether I would go and sign the papers. I wrote back and told her I would be praying for her father throughout the day. And that I had not changed my mind about the papers.

She wrote back a while later and told me I will be served and that this is the last I will hear from her until her lawyer has my signed papers in his hands.

Wow, I think my health could use a break from all of this. I am trying to improve and make other plans and do all the things I need to do to make myself into that guy who anyone would be crazy to leave but days like this make the whole thing so tough to swallow.