I agree with you Job. He tends to take advantage and change the rules when it suits him. I was setting the Sunday night boundary by explaining it to him last night. I think he got it because he said he wouldn't bring H home so late on Sundays anymore, but he just can't ever hold back from being the victim and taking a shot. Even when the consequence is from his own doing, like not being able to have S because of a tummy ache.
I do tend to be too available, but it truly is only for my son. I also do want them to spend time together, so it usually feels like the right thing to do.
I am over it and staying on my toes. He has become like a child who tests how far he can push. The sad part is he is worse than my 8 year old.
Me 48 H 46 S 11 M 2004 BD 8/13 H moved out 2/15 -live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-