New email address made. Continued contact. Confronted. She continues to say I am controlling. I continue to site protection of my values and boundaries. She mentioned, "I was just trying to be friendly with you." I mentioned that as a husband, I can work through this, but I can not be just friends. I said this awhile ago before I found this site. Did not mean anything to her then, likely because I was not acting that way, or not standing up for myself well enough. W left the house again, citing she feels too controlled, never loved me because she did not love herself first, all of the same.
At least this morning she came home at an appropriate time to allow me to leave for work in a timely fashion. And she does want to work out a schedule for child care.
She knows her family is likely going to ostracize her. Her sister will possibly even never talk to her again. She believes it will be for just a short period of time. Based on what happened with her father, likely not, but who knows. OM claims otherwise obviously, but he will likely never be accepted.
