I was just the same OTU. And cried on & off for hours when I started reading the book..lots of food for thought in Brene Brown's stuff isn't there? It's made me feel I'm starting a whole new journey.

((OTU))

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus