Mighty, I'm w/uRWorthy on this one. Shut this man down. In his mind, he thinks because you've been nice and communicating w/him, that it's okay for him to continue to call and text you. He thinks you are interested in him. SHUT HIM DOWN! If you don't, he will continue to call and text you. Also, he may very well continue to show up wherever you are w/excuses of bumping into you. He wants attention, ego stroking, etc., because his wife has a battle on her hands w/cancer. He's not getting that attention at home and because you are a nice lady and have been friendly towards him, his mind is in overdrive thinking you might be interested in him even though you've not indicated that you have. Be careful...in some cases, this is how stalking begins.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
