Nope we dont really need a bigger house, a bigger house would only be a want. And its something H even wanted when I purchased the house we have now, H always saw this house as a starter home.
Job, H said he was not thinking and he just filed cause it was deadline and he did not want to bother me with it. H said he did not think he just did it.
H called several more times from work, I only answer 2x cause I was very tired of the phone ringing. H again said he was sorry for not discussing with me first. The next call said he "just wanted to make sure I was ok" I said yeah I'm OK and told him to be careful at work. NO sense in letting him know how I'm really thinking right now, no sense in showing him the cards I may need to play. He is making choices and moves like he is a single man, then I need to get even more prepared for the VERY real possibility that I may soon be a single woman
This reaction from H is making me even more suspicions, he does appear to be sorry and now very concerned about what might happen with his taxes.
But I wonder if there is something else that he is worried about, could he be worried about me telling him that I'm tired of all of this, or is he hiding something even bigger then the filing of his taxes?
Either way I know now to be even more prepared for what ever might turn up.
I need to NOT keep talking to him right now about anything even close to our M or R, I'm not sure what I might end up saying.
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW
