Continuing DBing

[u-turn]

Peter - I also agree with this. Sadly it puts you right in the same spot you have been in for a long time.

What can you do about it - it is your decision. Even though the decision you WANT to make isn't one of the options right now - and you cannot force it to be one of the options. So you have to pick A - move on with you life without her; or C - continue being the better person and improving yourself for yourself (this is a lonely road sometimes - isn't it?).

I know this because it is where I am too (you've seen that and commented (thank you - by the way)).