Ripken - Trying LRT and going dark. Now what?

[Ripken8]

Toots - thanks so much for the response (and everyone else) I appreciate the support. I've read a lot of ur posts, ur great. I'll continue the going dark and really watch any interaction so I'm not pursuing. As far as the gal, that's where it gets tricky. Most of my friends have moved to other parts of the country and the two that are here have young children so don't get out. I've thought about going to the casino for fun and watching some of the nba games at a bar but that's not something I can or should keep doing all the time. Aside from that I'm kinda stuck as far as what to do to gal. Also she's gone sometimes 4 nights a week. I'm worried if I go 3 nights what affect that has on our sons if there not any night or significantly fewer nights when we're both in the same house at the same time