I'll take MLC for $1000, Alex...

[wishing, hoping]

Thanks all. BF and I ran errands all weekend and worked on fixing up his place. I think living together is a go. I've thought a lot about it and I think this is the right decision. It will also help us both financially so we can pay down debt and get where we want financially.

So X is in contempt. I wanted to wait and see how the events played out this weekend before I wrote my letter to the court. Sure enough OW was dumb enough to sign D's school notebook on Wednesday, so now I have documentation that H never let me have the kids Wednesday. I will make copies of that along with the email trail and texts and compose my letter to the court. Of course I will let my attorney review it first.

When I picked up D tonight X was unusually quiet. Seemed angry. Of course. I remained upbeat and calm which i am sure he wasn't expecting. His fashion sense hasn't improved since he answered the door wearing shorts and black dress socks. Ugh

On the way home the kids told me how OW's kids get preferencial treatment. My kids have to share their stuff but her kids don't have to share theirs. My kids get blamed for stuff and their dad and OW defend the other kids. My son verified this story. Nothing I can do about it but it makes me sick. I just told them I was sorry they had to endure that and if they felt they were being treated unfairly they needed to stand up and tell their dad. Not that he will do anything about it but they need to stand up for what is fair.

X and OW think they are untouchable. they think they are doing nothing wrong. I guess I need to be the one to point out how wrong they are.

WH