Jim0987 #13 - Its life Jim, but not as we know it

[Mozza]

What if she's on a dating site to see if you are? If OM is? As a joke? What if PF created the account for her some time ago? Just a few ideas to remind you not to read too much into it. There are many scenarios and the real one might be very different from what you considered so far.

What interests me more is that you are on a dating site. As you know, I'm ready to flirt and date, yet I can't get myself registered on any of this. The official reason is that I don't feel ready to present myself as "available" because my WW could rock my boat with a bat of an eyelash. Hence, I leave encounters to chance and manage expectations. Another reason is that I don't want WW to see that I've a profile there. I can't say exactly why, but it's probably a mix of not really wanting to suggest that I moved on, not giving her ground for early D based on cheating (in my jurisdiction), not letting her know that I'm still single. My father and my IC might add that I'm actually afraid to really meet anyone.But it seems like you have none of these qualms. Or do you? Did you have any resistance to creating your profile? Do you present yourself as single and looking for a serious R? I'm curious to know more.

By the way, since you say you're also clueless about dating, let me recommend you, as I've done for others here, to read Models by Mark Manson. In short, it's the dating version of NMMNG. It's in line with everything I read and even what I hear from my IC.