Yea, she prob did take that as pursuing. As you saw, if she wants to leave, she is going to leave. Nothing you can say will get her to change her mind.

What is it you are looking for help with?

Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16