Mozza, I should stop saying I don't want to reconcile. I feel like it's too early and she's too deep into the affair. However, it's been 6 months and based on the discussion today, she's bottomed out. It's amazing to watch the script unfold. She was crying, apologizing, she said she felt like a drug addict and hates the person she's become. She never mentions reconciliation and I don't either. She only said she will not go see OM and she needs a break from him.
Tenbook, my safe friends don't get DBing. They can't believe I haven't booted her to the curb or walked out. They do a great job pumping me up by commending my commitment to her and the kids. So that's good.
I'm on my phone, so it's harder to type. I think I did pretty good today when we talked. I rocked the hell out some validation, didn't focus on the negative, didn't play the victim. I was strong and confident. I normal flip on the nice guy switch when she cries, not today.
M:42 W:43 T:14 M:10 S:9 D:5 W filed 12/22/14 EA 12/31/14 PA 4/10/15 D final 5/13/15