Originally Posted By: Bob723

Zues, As Lisa mentioned, I think someday I will be happy that we split up, but I still want my W to regret it. It is so hard for me to let go of the resentment. I know I need to, but I'm not ready to yet.



Want to make her regret it? Live a great and meaningful life. Do it for yourself with zero thought of how your W views it. Only then will she see what she lost.


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16