Thanks for talking about this. Anyone else have similar feelings?
Zues, As Lisa mentioned, I think someday I will be happy that we split up, but I still want my W to regret it. It is so hard for me to let go of the resentment. I know I need to, but I'm not ready to yet.
Lisa, I think your attitude about trying to learn about yourself and have some fun, too, is a good step towards moving forward. Good luck to you!
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15