Journaling: W finished her work shift this morning and brought breakfast by for the kids and I. I was cordial with W and thanked her for breakfast. W didn't come into house and took just enough time to hug kids before she left.
Then W called about two hours later while I was at the zoo to see how the kids were doing. She then asked me if I received her L's paperwork via email. I told her that I hadn't looked at it yet. W asked if we could grab a coffee to go over paperwork, etc. I told W that I had no problem with that. (Of course, I will delay this as long as possible. Then, when I can't postpone any longer, I plan to ask to meet with her L but I have no intention of signing up with her L.)
Then W asked if I hired PI. I told her that I hadn't. (I don't know why W keeps asking this question. I guess she's just paranoid.) I then tell W that I need to get back to the kids and I wish her a good day.
W calls two more times. The final call is while W is driving to work. She spends a few minutes talking to D4 and then W asks me while I'm being mean. W then asks about private investigator again lol. I reply to W that I've never hired a PI.
W then starts asking me about the D and her L. I tell W that I didn't have a chance to look at her email because I was with the kids all weekend. W asks me if I am going to let her D me. I reply that there is a lot to think about right now. W replies that she has wanted to D me for a long time.
I can tell W is frustrated because I am not just going along with her plans and signing up with her L and immediately agreeing to D.
I change the subject again and tell W that D4 wants to talk with her again. I then wish W a good night at work. ---- Most importantly, had a wonderful day with kids! No matter what happens, these kids continue to inspire me to fight for them and this family!
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15