I don't think there is any point asking your H stuff like this. If he is having an A, he will just lie to you about it...
Hello Eirinn,
Toots is correct. I don't think it benefits you asking your H about the status with the OW.
Please hang in there and don't give up, ok?
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15