Patience Z - interesting your H has not responded. My H isn't responding atm, and I have been practicing patience and not mind-reading for a while now. You're welcome to join the club.

What I would say at this stage is - don't expect your H to lead anything. If you want to file - go ahead and file. If you want to wait and see how this unfolds, do that. But have no expectations of your H to lead.

I just keep trying to take the long view - what will sit well with me in 2,3,5 years time.

Good luck to you....((Z))

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus