Jim0987 #13 - Its life Jim, but not as we know it

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Hi Jim - interesting....obviously life with OM wasn't all candy floss and popsicles then.

That may partly account for your W's rather warmed up approach. When all was happy with OM, it was easy to see you as awful. If things have gone pear-shaped with OM, it may have rubbed the sheen off your 'awfulness' in her eyes.

Good luck with the dating venture too. The only bit of your post I would comment on is this part...

"the fundamental is that she still doesnt want much to do with me and even if she did she wouldnt act on it - however its a change none the less."

And only to say that I think the part in red is a touch of mindreading. Who knows what she may or may not do. It is still relatively early in your sitch, and I don't think things are by any means hopeless lovely Jim.

xx